The pleasures of BDSM abduction
What's so exciting about kidnappings? Why so many people are-were they attracted by the idea of being thrown into the boot of a car, gagged and blindfolded, then transported to a secret location to be tortured?
Part of what makes scenes BDSM so exciting is the unknown. Although I ask for certain information before organizing a session (whether that's a kidnapping or another type of session). Basically, you're giving me total control over your safety and security for a certain period of time. Kidnapping takes this to the next level. Although you may know what day or week I'm going to capture you, you have little or no other information. Will I be alone or with others? people? Where will we go? How long will the torture? And if something goes wrong wrong? Am I going to be safe or is my kidnapper really a bit crazy?
Another aspect of abduction fantasies is the adrenaline factor. It's the same reason that drives us to go to horror movies, ride motorcycles, roller coasters or engage in any number of other activities that provoke that adrenaline rush. We seek it in many situations, and a kidnapping is the ultimate adrenaline-pumping experience.
As for the other scenes BDSMthere's also the abandonment aspect in fantasies removal. You lose control, your captor makes all the decisions. There's something wonderfully liberating about giving someone else total control over a situation. You don't have to think, you just have to juice.be a good boy or girl and follow orders. Isn't that so liberating?
Kidnapping fantasies are one of my favorite sessions to organize. It's a bit like writing a play.e theater. There are so many details to consider, and I like to play out all the possibilities in my head long before the scene actually happens. As for many of you, for me, the anticipation of a session is sometimes almost as good as the session itself. Although they require much more organization and planning than a stage BDSM traditional, the pleasure of watching you squirm in captivity is well worth it.
* Like for all my sessions, I adhere to strict rules regarding consent. Please read my article blog on the subject.