Symbols are important in BDSM, and the necklace is the ultimate symbol of Domination and submission. Why is the necklace so powerful? What is the history of the necklace in BDSM? What does it mean to wear a necklace? What are the different styles of necklace? I...
Some of you may have seen on social networks that I've created a BDSM board game called Inannapoly. At the moment, the only way to play it is with me. I'm considering putting the game up for sale, but that won't be for a few months at least. In the meantime, feel free to contact me...
Are you just starting out in the wonderful world of BDSM and feeling overwhelmed by all the complex toys available? I wrote an article about everyday objects a while ago, and I invite you to (re)read it if you haven't already. You've played with pliers...
This article is limited to male chastity, as I have no experience of locking up a submissive. Although some of my submissives identify with another gender during our sessions, for convenience in writing, I will use the pronouns he / him. As in all my articles,...
What is pegging? The term was first used by renowned sex advice columnist Dan Savage in 2001 to describe when a cis-gender woman anally penetrates a cis-gender man with a belted dildo. While the practice existed long before, in recent years it has become more widely accepted and...
During a distance learning course, I asked submissives to write about rituals in BDSM. I posed a few questions to consider: Why do we attach so much importance to this in BDSM? What's in it for submissives? What are the benefits? This is the work of smoums....
Humiliation and degradation Why do we get so excited when we call someone a bastard, a bitch, a whore, a pig? Why does it turn us on to be called these names? Why do we seek out humiliating experiences in our sexual exchanges? As with all aspects of sexuality, there's no single right answer...
In collaboration with FFFBuzz.com. Feel free to visit the site for articles on FemDom, kink and BDSM. Some common "S types" in BDSM In BDSM relationships, the Dominant (or top) person is the one who assumes power, authority or control. This authority is, of course, always under cover of the explicit consent of...
In collaboration with FFFBuzz.com. Feel free to visit the site for articles on FemDom, kink and BDSM. For those just starting out in BDSM, I'd advise you to start with everyday objects, before going out and buying expensive equipment that you might not enjoy afterwards. You don't need...
When it comes to BDSM, I love very elaborate games. Kidnapping is one of my favorite sessions. BDSaime reports on a kidnapping I organized last year with a few girlfriends. Happy reading!
What's so exciting about kidnapping? Why are so many people drawn to the idea of being thrown into the trunk of a car, gagged and blindfolded, then transported to a secret location to be tortured? Part of what makes BDSM scenes so exciting is the unknown. Although I ask for certain information before organizing a...
Let's face it: people come to me to satisfy their sexual needs. Generally speaking, this means they want to have an orgasm during our encounter. Although my practices exclude traditional sexual services, there is often some form of sexual stimulation during sessions, such as JOI...