After an intense session, sometimes you need a good follow-up. Your partner may not be available for one reason or another. Here are some tips for taking care of yourself when that's the case. I've already written about the symptoms of a relapse in another article, where you can find...
Planning your first (or second, or hundredth) game night? Here's a quick guide to help you make friends, feel more confident and have a fabulous time. Know the rules Find out about the event you want to attend. Is there a dress code? Are the doors...
I realize that many of you prefer a "lifestyle" experience, but if that's not possible for you, here are a few reasons to consider visiting a pro-Domme. I'm talking, of course, about visiting an experienced professional with an excellent reputation. As always, it's up to you to make the right decisions.
Symbols are important in BDSM, and the necklace is the ultimate symbol of Domination and submission. Why is the necklace so powerful? What is the history of the necklace in BDSM? What does it mean to wear a necklace? What are the different styles of necklace? I...
If you're interested in meeting a professional Dominatrix, you're probably wondering why we charge such a high hourly rate. Is it all about the money for us? The short answer is no, not at all. The more comprehensive answer is also no, but requires some explanation. Here are a few reasons why...
Are you just starting out in the wonderful world of BDSM and feeling overwhelmed by all the complex toys available? I wrote an article about everyday objects a while ago, and I invite you to (re)read it if you haven't already. You've played with pliers...
We often talk about customer selection, but I think it's just as important that customers choose Dominatrices with care and caution to avoid scams. When a customer is swindled, it harms ALL trustworthy professionals. I've already talked about some of these points in a...
Most of you fantasize for weeks, even months, leading up to a BDSM session. We exchange emails, chat on the phone or make a video call, you watch my videos and read the posts on my blog... but after our session, I don't hear from you. Saying thank you should be...
I was recently talking to a client about my personal preferences for session length, and thought I'd share with you what I like and why. This should help you decide how long to consider booking, whether it's the first or fortieth time we've met. There are...
Do you dream of going to a gathering of 20, 30, 40 or more people where you can discuss BDSM in a safe, open-minded environment? While COVID has put the brakes on group activities for the time being, it won't be long before you can get together again...
As you may already know, I like to accompany beginners in their discovery of BDSM. We never forget our "first times": our first kiss, the first time we drove, our first adult vacation. I want to introduce more people to the wonders of this world in a safe, reassuring environment. We...
When I talk with my vanilla friends about my work as a Professional Dominatrix, they often assume that the people I see are all poor losers or, at the other end of the spectrum, high-powered CEOs who need to escape the pressures of their jobs. Although this is...