If you follow my blog closely, you already know Podopheleus, a British blogger I deeply admire. He's interviewed me on several occasions and I've been invited to write about necklaces on his blog. Pod is, like me, an advocate of change (so he says). His blog is a...
Once upon a time... ...there was a Reinaume where two friends reigned as Mistresses. Under their orders and at their feet, their little impersonal: minordomes, at once servants, footmen, carpets and sufferers, in short, objects dedicated to the sole pleasure of these Ladies... Over the past two years, I've been working on a project...
If you follow me on social networks, you've probably seen me posting about the France FemDom event I'm organizing in June 2024. But maybe you're not a fan of social media (I can totally understand) and have no idea what I'm talking about. Why I created France FemDom...
What does "lifestyle Dominatrix" mean? A lifestyle Domina is someone who engages in BDSM play without asking for payment for her services. A professional Domina, as the title implies, is someone who provides these services in exchange for payment. Many, if not most, professional Dommes also have play partners...
Planning your first (or second, or hundredth) game night? Here's a quick guide to help you make friends, feel more confident and have a fabulous time. Know the rules Find out about the event you want to attend. Is there a dress code? Are the doors...
People often ask me if I rent out my beautiful Justice Room, but at the moment it's not something I offer. So I've put together a little map and a list of dungeons in France that are available if you'd like to spend some time with your friend. I haven't had...
After almost 2 years on this project, my book The Heart of the Dominatrix is finally available! Over 170 photos and 316 pages of interviews with Dominatrixes around the world. You can visit the site here. I'm adding lots of events (book signings in Paris, interviews...). Feel free to have a look! 10% profits are...
Symbols are important in BDSM, and the necklace is the ultimate symbol of Domination and submission. Why is the necklace so powerful? What is the history of the necklace in BDSM? What does it mean to wear a necklace? What are the different styles of necklace? I...
Are you just starting out in the wonderful world of BDSM and feeling overwhelmed by all the complex toys available? I wrote an article about everyday objects a while ago, and I invite you to (re)read it if you haven't already. You've played with pliers...
This article is limited to male chastity, as I have no experience of locking up a submissive. Although some of my submissives identify with another gender during our sessions, for convenience in writing, I will use the pronouns he / him. As in all my articles,...
Do you dream of going to a gathering of 20, 30, 40 or more people where you can discuss BDSM in a safe, open-minded environment? While COVID has put the brakes on group activities for the time being, it won't be long before you can get together again...
I'm currently sitting in the back of a minivan with some naughty friends, enjoying an escape from Paris, welcome after this second confinement. Here are the demographics of our little group: two sex workers, two erotic photographers, four of us are pan- or bi-sexual, most of us are polyamourists, and all of us are active in...