If you follow my blog closely, you already know Podopheleus, a British blogger I deeply admire. He's interviewed me on several occasions and I've been invited to write about necklaces on his blog. Pod is, like me, an advocate of change (so he says). His blog is a...
If you follow me on social networks, you've probably seen me posting about the France FemDom event I'm organizing in June 2024. But maybe you're not a fan of social media (I can totally understand) and have no idea what I'm talking about. Why I created France FemDom...
This text was written as an introduction to Hearts and Flowers, Whips and Chains edited by Jay Willowbay. You can buy the book here. The Joy of Domination When I meet someone new, the conversation often goes like this: "What do you do for a living?" someone asks me innocently. "Well,...
It's the beginning of the year and time for me to set out my intentions for 2023. One of my goals is to focus on longer, more intimate sessions. While I love my more traditional BDSM sessions of around two hours and focused on different play, I feel the need to dedicate more...
After almost 2 years on this project, my book The Heart of the Dominatrix is finally available! Over 170 photos and 316 pages of interviews with Dominatrixes around the world. You can visit the site here. I'm adding lots of events (book signings in Paris, interviews...). Feel free to have a look! 10% profits are...
Symbols are important in BDSM, and the necklace is the ultimate symbol of Domination and submission. Why is the necklace so powerful? What is the history of the necklace in BDSM? What does it mean to wear a necklace? What are the different styles of necklace? I...
Some of you may have seen on social networks that I've created a BDSM board game called Inannapoly. At the moment, the only way to play it is with me. I'm considering putting the game up for sale, but that won't be for a few months at least. In the meantime, feel free to contact me...
If you're interested in meeting a professional Dominatrix, you're probably wondering why we charge such a high hourly rate. Is it all about the money for us? The short answer is no, not at all. The more comprehensive answer is also no, but requires some explanation. Here are a few reasons why...
We often talk about customer selection, but I think it's just as important that customers choose Dominatrices with care and caution to avoid scams. When a customer is swindled, it harms ALL trustworthy professionals. I've already talked about some of these points in a...
Most of you fantasize for weeks, even months, leading up to a BDSM session. We exchange emails, chat on the phone or make a video call, you watch my videos and read the posts on my blog... but after our session, I don't hear from you. Saying thank you should be...
This article is limited to male chastity, as I have no experience of locking up a submissive. Although some of my submissives identify with another gender during our sessions, for convenience in writing, I will use the pronouns he / him. As in all my articles,...
I was recently talking to a client about my personal preferences for session length, and thought I'd share with you what I like and why. This should help you decide how long to consider booking, whether it's the first or fortieth time we've met. There are...