If you follow my blog closely, you already know Podopheleus, a British blogger I deeply admire. He's interviewed me on several occasions and I've been invited to write about necklaces on his blog. Pod is, like me, an advocate of change (so he says). His blog is a...
Once upon a time... ...there was a Reinaume where two friends reigned as Mistresses. Under their orders and at their feet, their little impersonal: minordomes, at once servants, footmen, carpets and sufferers, in short, objects dedicated to the sole pleasure of these Ladies... Over the past two years, I've been working on a project...
If you follow me on social networks, you've probably seen me posting about the France FemDom event I'm organizing in June 2024. But maybe you're not a fan of social media (I can totally understand) and have no idea what I'm talking about. Why I created France FemDom...
What does "lifestyle Dominatrix" mean? A lifestyle Domina is someone who engages in BDSM play without asking for payment for her services. A professional Domina, as the title implies, is someone who provides these services in exchange for payment. Many, if not most, professional Dommes also have play partners...
After an intense session, sometimes you need a good follow-up. Your partner may not be available for one reason or another. Here are some tips for taking care of yourself in the hours and days following a session when this is the case. I've already written about the symptoms of...
Planning your first (or second, or hundredth) game night? Here's a quick guide to help you make friends, feel more confident and have a fabulous time. Know the rules Find out about the event you want to attend. Is there a dress code? Are the doors...
I realize that many of you prefer a "lifestyle" experience, but if that's not possible for you, here are a few reasons to consider visiting a pro-Domme. I'm talking, of course, about visiting an experienced professional with an excellent reputation. As always, it's up to you to make the right decisions.
It's becoming increasingly common for Dominatrices to ask for advance payments. I'm frequently asked why and what it means to you. Paying a deposit shows that you are committed to the appointment and that you understand the value of my time. I often joke that I...
This text was written as an introduction to Hearts and Flowers, Whips and Chains edited by Jay Willowbay. You can buy the book here. The Joy of Domination When I meet someone new, the conversation often goes like this: "What do you do for a living?" someone asks me innocently. "Well,...
People often ask me if I rent out my beautiful Justice Room, but at the moment it's not something I offer. So I've put together a little map and a list of dungeons in France that are available if you'd like to spend some time with your friend. I haven't had...
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It's the beginning of the year and time for me to set out my intentions for 2023. One of my goals is to focus on longer, more intimate sessions. While I love my more traditional BDSM sessions of around two hours and focused on different play, I feel the need to dedicate more...