It's the beginning of the year and time for me to set out my intentions for 2023. One of my goals is to focus on longer, more intimate sessions. While I love my more traditional BDSM sessions of around two hours and focused on different play, I feel the need to dedicate more...
Are you just starting out in the wonderful world of BDSM and feeling overwhelmed by all the complex toys available? I wrote an article about everyday objects a while ago, and I invite you to (re)read it if you haven't already. You've played with pliers...
This article is limited to male chastity, as I have no experience of locking up a submissive. Although some of my submissives identify with another gender during our sessions, for convenience in writing, I will use the pronouns he / him. As in all my articles,...
Do you dream of going to a gathering of 20, 30, 40 or more people where you can discuss BDSM in a safe, open-minded environment? While COVID has put the brakes on group activities for the time being, it won't be long before you can get together again...
As you may already know, I like to accompany beginners in their discovery of BDSM. We never forget our "first times": our first kiss, the first time we drove, our first adult vacation. I want to introduce more people to the wonders of this world in a safe, reassuring environment. We...
My introduction to Gang Bangs A few years ago, if you'd told me I'd be interested in gang bangs, I'd have told you you were crazy. Then I met someone who gave me a completely different perspective on them. I met J at a "munch" (an event where kinky people go to...
A few nights ago, while waiting for my lover to come home, I decided to get a massage to pass the time. There were plenty of massage parlors in the neighborhood, and I'd spent a long day pounding the pavement. What could be better than to lie down for a while and let...
I'm currently sitting in the back of a minivan with some naughty friends, enjoying an escape from Paris, welcome after this second confinement. Here are the demographics of our little group: two sex workers, two erotic photographers, four of us are pan- or bi-sexual, most of us are polyamourists, and all of us are active in...
What is pegging? The term was first used by renowned sex advice columnist Dan Savage in 2001 to describe when a cis-gender woman anally penetrates a cis-gender man with a belted dildo. While the practice existed long before, in recent years it has become more widely accepted and...
Dominatrix myths and legends: even Dominatrixes do their laundry! There are a few misconceptions about what it means to be a professional Dominatrix. People seem to think that I live in an alternate reality where I don't have to stand in line at the post office when I need to send a...
Let's face it: people come to me to satisfy their sexual needs. Generally speaking, this means they want to have an orgasm during our encounter. Although my practices exclude traditional sexual services, there is often some form of sexual stimulation during sessions, such as JOI...