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BDSM program for beginners

As you may already know, I like to accompany beginners in their discovery of BDSM. We never forget our "first times": our first kiss, the first time we drove, our first adult vacation. I want to introduce more people to the wonders of this world in a safe and reassuring environment.

We'll start our discovery with a 15-minute video call, during which you can ask me any questions that come to mind. Want to know more about a practice without daring to ask a third party? Don't worry, I've heard all kinds of unusual fantasies and I won't judge you. Would you like to find a partner but don't know where to look? I've got lots of ways to help you in your search. Do you simply want to know more about me? I'll be an open book for you. All your questions are welcome. The idea of this call is to make you feel comfortable for our future meeting.

I will then ask you to read a few articles on my site before our meeting and I will make sure of it before this meeting. All this is to ensure that our time together is as perfect as possible and that you are informed of certain BDSM fundamentals that I feel are essential. In my experience, it's also reassuring for beginners to know that they're going to evolve in complete safety and well-being.

Then we'll agree on a date for the meeting. As this is an introductory session, I've chosen a few of the most popular practices for beginners. Choose three from this list:

  • foot fetish, shoes, socks, stockings, pantyhose
  • anal play (fingers, dildo, plug)
  • mobility restrictions (floor ropes, handcuffs, leather straps)
  • impact games (swifts, spanking)
  • sensory deprivation (hood, ball gag, blindfold, hand over mouth)

The session lasts 1h30, including a shower before (and after if you wish) and a quick debriefing over a drink.

Prior to each session, I ask for a deposit before scheduling the video call. At the end of the video call, we agree on an appointment (day and time). If you are unable to attend, the deposit is non-refundable but, with 48 hours' notice, I authorize a reschedule our appointment within 30 days without forfeiting your deposit.

I currently require a COVID test before each session. This must be done less than 24 hours before the session, and you'll need to show me the results. For those who have never had one, it's not pleasant, but it doesn't hurt. Every pharmacy near me does them without appointment.

My hope is to encourage more beginners to take this often intimidating first step. I myself have been very lucky to be accompanied in my first steps by some wonderful people and I hope to do the same in my turn. BDSM can be frightening when you don't know what to expect, but I hope the path I'm proposing will ease your anxieties and inspire you to explore all the fantastic aspects of my world.

If you're interested, send me an e-mail with "beginner BDSM program" in the subject line and I'll get back to you as soon as possible.

NB: this program is intended for beginners. It is by no means a way for the more experienced to obtain a session at a lower cost. If I discover that this is your intention, I will cancel the session. My goal is to introduce more motivated submissives to the magic of BDSM, and I don't allow anyone to abuse my kindness and generosity. Thank you for your understanding.

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