What does "lifestyle Dominatrix" mean? A lifestyle Domina is someone who engages in BDSM play without asking for payment for her services. A professional Domina, as the title implies, is someone who provides these services in exchange for payment. Many, if not most, professional Dommes also have play partners...
After an intense session, sometimes you need a good follow-up. Your partner may not be available for one reason or another. Here are some tips for taking care of yourself in the hours and days following a session when this is the case. I've already written about the symptoms of...
Planning your first (or second, or hundredth) game night? Here's a quick guide to help you make friends, feel more confident and have a fabulous time. Know the rules Find out about the event you want to attend. Is there a dress code? Are the doors...
It's becoming increasingly common for Dominatrices to ask for advance payments. I'm frequently asked why and what it means to you. Paying a deposit shows that you are committed to the appointment and that you understand the value of my time. I often joke that I...
People often ask me if I rent out my beautiful Justice Room, but at the moment it's not something I offer. So I've put together a little map and a list of dungeons in France that are available if you'd like to spend some time with your friend. I haven't had...
Symbols are important in BDSM, and the necklace is the ultimate symbol of Domination and submission. Why is the necklace so powerful? What is the history of the necklace in BDSM? What does it mean to wear a necklace? What are the different styles of necklace? I...
If you're interested in meeting a professional Dominatrix, you're probably wondering why we charge such a high hourly rate. Is it all about the money for us? The short answer is no, not at all. The more comprehensive answer is also no, but requires some explanation. Here are a few reasons why...
Are you just starting out in the wonderful world of BDSM and feeling overwhelmed by all the complex toys available? I wrote an article about everyday objects a while ago, and I invite you to (re)read it if you haven't already. You've played with pliers...
Most of you fantasize for weeks, even months, leading up to a BDSM session. We exchange emails, chat on the phone or make a video call, you watch my videos and read the posts on my blog... but after our session, I don't hear from you. Saying thank you should be...
This article is limited to male chastity, as I have no experience of locking up a submissive. Although some of my submissives identify with another gender during our sessions, for convenience in writing, I will use the pronouns he / him. As in all my articles,...
I often joke that seeing a professional dominatrix is dangerous. It leads to situations such as: taking your grandmother to the hospital, a dying uncle, transportation problems, or many other things... Of course, most of the time it's an excuse because fear can get the better of you before a session. ...
Do you dream of going to a gathering of 20, 30, 40 or more people where you can discuss BDSM in a safe, open-minded environment? While COVID has put the brakes on group activities for the time being, it won't be long before you can get together again...