I'm currently sitting in the back of a minivan with some naughty friends, enjoying an escape from Paris, welcome after this second confinement. Here are the demographics of our little group: two sex workers, two erotic photographers, four of us are pan- or bi-sexual, most of us are polyamourists, and all of us are active in...
Many Dominatrices like to be called "Mistresses", but don't think that's the case for all of us. As in all things, we are unique individuals with our own preferences and pet peeves. One of the reasons I write all these articles is because I want to tell you what my pet peeves are...
When I talk with my vanilla friends about my work as a Professional Dominatrix, they often assume that the people I see are all poor losers or, at the other end of the spectrum, high-powered CEOs who need to escape the pressures of their jobs. Although this is...
Dominatrix myths and legends: even Dominatrixes do their laundry! There are a few misconceptions about what it means to be a professional Dominatrix. People seem to think that I live in an alternate reality where I don't have to stand in line at the post office when I need to send a...
During a distance learning course, I asked submissives to write about rituals in BDSM. I posed a few questions to consider: Why do we attach so much importance to this in BDSM? What's in it for submissives? What are the benefits? This is the work of smoums....
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Limitless" submissives in BDSM sessions Of course, I'm talking here about those who contact professional Dominatrices for BDSM sessions. Although this information is also relevant to those in ongoing relationships, it applies mainly to customers who contact me for a session. Often, when I receive applications,...
If you've ever taken part in BDSM scenes, you may have found yourself in a state of "subspace". This state can take many forms, but is often described as a hypnotic trance. It can range from a slight buzz to a much more intense, almost out-of-body experience. It is compared...
Safety in BDSM games: SSC, RACK If you've been around the BDSM scene for a while, you've probably heard of SSC and RACK. What are the differences? And what about lesser-known acronyms like PRICK or CCC? What are the nuances between them, and what might your expectations be?