I realize that many of you prefer a "lifestyle" experience, but if that's not possible for you, here are a few reasons to consider visiting a pro-Domme. I'm talking, of course, about visiting an experienced professional with an excellent reputation. As always, it's up to you to make the right decisions.
It's becoming increasingly common for Dominatrices to ask for advance payments. I'm frequently asked why and what it means to you. Paying a deposit shows that you are committed to the appointment and that you understand the value of my time. I often joke that I...
If you're interested in meeting a professional Dominatrix, you're probably wondering why we charge such a high hourly rate. Is it all about the money for us? The short answer is no, not at all. The more comprehensive answer is also no, but requires some explanation. Here are a few reasons why...
We often talk about customer selection, but I think it's just as important that customers choose Dominatrices with care and caution to avoid scams. When a customer is swindled, it harms ALL trustworthy professionals. I've already talked about some of these points in a...
This article is limited to male chastity, as I have no experience of locking up a submissive. Although some of my submissives identify with another gender during our sessions, for convenience in writing, I will use the pronouns he / him. As in all my articles,...
I often joke that seeing a professional dominatrix is dangerous. It leads to situations such as: taking your grandmother to the hospital, a dying uncle, transportation problems, or many other things... Of course, most of the time it's an excuse because fear can get the better of you before a session. ...
I was recently talking to a client about my personal preferences for session length, and thought I'd share with you what I like and why. This should help you decide how long to consider booking, whether it's the first or fortieth time we've met. There are...
Many Dominatrices like to be called "Mistresses", but don't think that's the case for all of us. As in all things, we are unique individuals with our own preferences and pet peeves. One of the reasons I write all these articles is because I want to tell you what my pet peeves are...
When I talk with my vanilla friends about my work as a Professional Dominatrix, they often assume that the people I see are all poor losers or, at the other end of the spectrum, high-powered CEOs who need to escape the pressures of their jobs. Although this is...
Dominatrix myths and legends: even Dominatrixes do their laundry! There are a few misconceptions about what it means to be a professional Dominatrix. People seem to think that I live in an alternate reality where I don't have to stand in line at the post office when I need to send a...
During a distance learning course, I asked submissives to write about rituals in BDSM. I posed a few questions to consider: Why do we attach so much importance to this in BDSM? What's in it for submissives? What are the benefits? This is the work of smoums....
As many of you already know, I'd much prefer to be able to torture my victims in person, but current circumstances make that difficult. Many of you around the world have been asking for ways to serve me, and I've tried to be creative by concocting something original and fun that allows us to connect,...