When I talk with my vanilla friends about my work as a Professional Dominatrix, they often assume that the people I see are all poor losers or, at the other end of the spectrum, high-powered CEOs who need to escape the pressures of their jobs. Although this is...
What is pegging? The term was first used by renowned sex advice columnist Dan Savage in 2001 to describe when a cis-gender woman anally penetrates a cis-gender man with a belted dildo. While the practice existed long before, in recent years it has become more widely accepted and...
People often comment on the photos I post on Twitter with phrases like "What a lucky submissive!" or "I'd do anything to be in that guy's shoes". Today I'd like to break down this phenomenon for you, and tell you how to become one of my favorite customers. It's probably a lot...
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Here's a little story about why you should be prepared if things don't turn out exactly as you'd imagined (and that sometimes it's for the best). As you may know, I have a soft spot for beginners and love showing people the pleasures of this wonderful playground called...
Limitless" submissives in BDSM sessions Of course, I'm talking here about those who contact professional Dominatrices for BDSM sessions. Although this information is also relevant to those in ongoing relationships, it applies mainly to customers who contact me for a session. Often, when I receive applications,...
I've had a few sessions recently that didn't get off to a good start, so here's a list of things you can do to make sure everything goes as smoothly as possible when you meet a Professional Dominatrix, whether it's for the first time or the hundredth time. Be discreet when you arrive at my studioo....
Every professional dominatrix has her inclinations. Here are a few things you can do during our session to show your respect and admiration. These are just my tips. If you're with another woman, ask her if she has any preferences. When you're invited into my space, you have to behave like...
If you've ever taken part in BDSM scenes, you may have found yourself in a state of "subspace". This state can take many forms, but is often described as a hypnotic trance. It can range from a slight buzz to a much more intense, almost out-of-body experience. It is compared...
I'm frequently contacted by beginners who have finally decided to take the plunge and have their first real BDSM experience with a professional dominatrix. It's always a thrill to be able to accompany someone on the path to discovering this magical world. We always remember our first times: the first...
The importance of honesty in your application email I was talking to a friend of mine yesterday who was disappointed because he had received a negative response from a Dominatrix he wanted to meet. She didn't want to see him for a session because he didn't want to follow a particular point of the protocol she had shared with...