Honesty in your application email
The importance of honesty in your application email
Yesterday I was talking to a friend of mine who was disappointed because he had received a negative response from a Dominatrix he wanted to meet. She didn't want to see him for a session because he didn't want to follow a particular point of the protocol she had shared with him, without explaining why. It later turned out that this particular point demanded by this Domina was one of his phobias. But he hadn't initially indicated this phobia when he'd answered the application questionnaire. This is a significant problem. Knowing this Dominatrix particularly well, I am sure that if she had been aware of this phobia from the beginning, she would certainly have taken it into account and adapted her practices.
I'd like to make one important point here: before committing yourself to a session with a Dominatrix, you'll have to answer a number of questions. When we ask you about your weight, body type, allergies, health problems, limitations and phobias, it's absolutely not to judge you. That's because we need this information to create a framework for safely exploring your desires.
For example: if you are a fetishist leather but hate chains, I can avoid using these. If you don't indicate that you're allergic to garlic, while I'm planning sets of sensory deprivations associated with food, this can pose a problem. If you want to be tied up in suspension and you have a knee problem stemming from a soccer injury when you were young, I need to know about it to avoid this area. If you have blood pressure problems and would like to explore the choking gamesIt's important to mention this condition.
And if you have a specific phobia, I naturally expect you to tell me about it. What you may think is a small, unimportant detail may, on the contrary, be very important to the smooth running of the time we're going to spend together. So be honest and be sure to mention all your medical issues, even if you feel they are not related to BDSM practices. There's little or nothing that a professional Dominatrice hasn't already heard or read in an application e-mail. It takes a lot to surprise or astonish us.
All the more so as you contact us to allow us to explore your deepest desires in a secure environment. If we don't have enough information from you, at best the session will be of mediocre quality, and at worst .... well, the worst I don't even want to imagine!
So please take the time to read our questionnaires carefully and take great care to answer with detailed and precise answers. Not only will you maximize the possibility of receiving a positive response from the Domina of your dreams, but our meeting will be pleasant and enjoyable for both of us.
* It should be noted that the Mistress's wishes take precedence.. The protocol has been defined and is applied for important reasons. You must never try to circumvent the rules. Thanks to the honest and precise information you've given the Dominatrix, she can adjust the content of the session slightly, if she feels it's necessary.
