Inannapoly: My BDSM Board Game

Inannapoly: My BDSM Board Game

Some of you might have seen on social media that I created a board game called Inannaopoly. 

For the moment, the only way to play is to book a game day/night with me. I’m looking into making the game available for sale, but that won’t be for a few months at the very least. In the meantime, you can contact me to set up a time to play.

Because this is a new project, I am offering a promotion for those of you who want to be amongst my beta testers while I work out the kinks (no pun intended). Rather than paying for X hours for a session, you pay a flat fee to play. I want feedback from players to help me perfect the game, so there will be a short debriefing after our round. There is no minimum or maximum time to play. You may lose in 20 minutes, or we may play for 3 hours! It’s all up to the dice. This is not a typical session where I take into account your fantasies and create a tailor-made experience: you come to The Justice Room, we play a round of Inannaopoly, we debrief, and you go on your way. 

 

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La boîte d’Inannapoly.

 

Because this is a new project, I am offering a promotion for those of you who want to be amongst my beta testers while I work out the kinks (no pun intended). Rather than paying for X hours for a session, you pay a flat fee to play. I want feedback from players to help me perfect the game, so there will be a short debriefing after our round. There is no minimum or maximum time to play. You may lose in 20 minutes, or we may play for 3 hours! It’s all up to the dice. This is not a typical session where I take into account your fantasies and create a tailor-made experience: you come to The Justice Room, we play a round of Inannaopoly, we debrief, and you go on your way.

To give you an idea of how long a round lasts, in the first trials, it was from 50 minutes to 1h40. So far, I have only played with one player at a time, but I would be thrilled to have two or three players come for a round.

To give you an idea of how long a round lasts, in the first trials, it was from 50 minutes to 1h40. So far, I have only played with one player at a time, but I would be thrilled to have two or three players come for a round.

I tried to give a variety of practices, but you all know that I’m a bit sadistic, so there’s quite a lot of impact play and things that make you go « ouch ». Of course you can always use a safe word, but you lose the game if you do so! This is one time where I don’t take your limits into consideration, although I do consider if you have health issues for certain practices (breath play and asthmatics, for example).

There is of course FemDom tax to pay, but certain ‘chance’ cards allow you to get Inanna Bucks from the bank.

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Les régles de jeu.

 

I don’t want to give away too many details, but to give you an idea of some of the spaces on the board, here’s a short list: 

Edging 

Ball gag 

Straight jacket 

Crop 

Cane 

Pegging 

Paddle 

Slave positions

If you want to try to beat me at my own game, contact me for details and we can set a play date! If a multi-player round interests you, let me know in your message and I’ll coordinate with another player. 

I want to give a shoutout to my dear friend at BDSAime.com who did the fantastic graphic design and helped me work out a lot of the details. Without him, I wouldn’t have been able to have such a beautiful board game. Visit his website to read about his adventures with professional Dommes and his thoughts on BDSM. 

I’m looking forward to playing with lots of you!

 

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Getting Started in BDSM: Essential Toys

Getting Started in BDSM: essential toys

Are you just starting out in the marvellous world of BDSM and overwhelmed by all of the intricate toys that are available? I wrote an article on household items a while back, and I invite you to re(read) that if you haven’t already. You’ve played with laundry pegs, ice cubes, and other things that you can find around the house, and now you’re ready to start investing in some BDSM gear. Here’s a short list of my recommendations. 

As I’ve said many times in my articles, it’s always better to invest in quality rather than quantity. Make sure you’re using body-safe toys (surgical steel, medical-grade silicone, etc.). You’ll be much happier to have a few quality items and not a drawerful of crap that you’re not proud of (and that can potentially be dangerous).  

That said, some of these items are really inexpensive on sites like AliExpress/Wish. More on that as you continue reading. 

Don’t forget about hygiene! Wash your toys before and after every use, even if you only have one partner. Use a medical-grade cold sterilising solution to ensure that everything is as clean as possible. Condoms are relatively cheap and help save time with cleanup. Don’t be shy using them. 

Without further ado, here are some recommendations on BDSM basics: 

Sensory play toys

Sensory play can range from a feather brushing across the skin to more intense electric stimulation. There are really endless possibilities, and I love to watch the goosebumps appear when I do sensory play. 

One of my favorite all-time toys is my Wartenberg wheel. Actually, I have a collection of them because I love them so much. It was initially designed as a device to test nerve reactions, but is now a commonly seen object in BDSM kits. Depending on where you use it and how much pressure you apply, the sensations range from a little tickle to quite painful. 

Collar and leash 

A staple in any BDSM kit. Placing a collar on your sub can be a very intimate moment, a physical symbol of the bond between the two of you, be that for an hour or for a lifetime. 

It can also be a good way to signal to your partner that it’s play time, much like when we put on beautiful lingerie (yes, men can wear lingerie, too!), light candles, and put Barry White on the stereo. It’s a way of communicating to your partner that you would like some naughty time. 

During play, a collar and leash can be a practical way to direct your sub around the dungeon. Depending on the force you use (and the type of collar), it’s quite effective.

I often use collars for predicament bondage, where my submissive is forced to, for example, stand on their tiptoes or risk having the discomfort of the collar pulling tightly around his neck. BEWARE, this is potentially very dangerous and you should not do this unless you are fully aware of the risks. 

Collars and leashes lend easily to pet play, one of my favorite things recently. Bark, boy! 

Impact toys

It’s no secret that I’m a sadist, so these are perhaps my favorite instruments. I have a huge collection of crops, tawses, floggers, canes, paddles, whips, and other devices to hit you with. 

I highly recommend Caresse de Cuir who makes a variety of beautiful impact toys. You can find my Wishlist on their site if you want to contribute to my ever-growing collection. 

This is one department that I would really recommend you buying the best quality you can afford from the get-go. You’ll likely be very disappointed if you order from some random mass-produced website. 

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A few toys from Caresse de Cuir.

Penetration toys 

I love my huge collection of dildos, but not everyone can afford to purchase (and store) so many. 

Butt plugs, often called rosebuds, are great fun. There are many types, including connected plugs that can be controlled with an application or set to music. 

Again, be sure that you’re purchasing things that are body-safe and be sure to clean them properly between uses, even if you only have one partner. 

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Inanna Justice with a strap-on.

Gags 

Who doesn’t love a gag? At the very least, it muffles the pleas of a suffering sub. Depending on what type of gag you use, it can restrict breathing (again, be very careful with this type of edge play), provoke salivation, or widen the mouth to insert other things such as my lady cock.

I can’t say it enough: buy quality. This thing is going into your body and you need to be able to thoroughly clean it between uses. 

Hoods/blindfolds 

Here is one area that you don’t have to invest in expensive items, although you will likely find yourself doing so as you become more and more experienced with sensory deprivation. 

I have a bunch of lycra hoods that I purchase off of sites like Wish or AliExpress. They’re inexpensive, I can wash them in the machine at high temperatures, and when they get worn out, I just throw them away. 

Of course, I also have leather, latex, and faux leather hoods, but I love sensory deprivation and always want to have many options available. 

Same with blindfolds. You can use a scarf or a sleep mask if you’re just starting to build your collection, or you can invest in intricate leather blindfolds that keep all the light out. 

Restraints 

A sturdy set of leather (or vegan leather) handcuffs and ankle cuffs are indispensable in your BDSM toolkit. You can attach limbs together or to the wall/ceiling, place your sub in uncomfortable positions, or simply ensure that they won’t wiggle around too much while you’re playing with them. I am not a fan of metal handcuffs as they can be really painful, and not in the good way. Leather is sturdy and generally won’t leave marks even when playing rough. 

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Nipple play 

This is another thing that you don’t necessarily have to spend a lot of money on at first. You can find decent nipple clamps on Wish and AliExpress to begin. There are a variety of styles, including the popular Japonix style, or with two metal rods that you fasten together with rubber bands. 

If you’re into extreme nipple play, you can find weighted nipple clamps on BDSM specialty sites. 

Final note 

You can build a good collection with a limited budget, but always be conscious of items that are being inserted into the mouth, anus, or vagina. If you don’t have an autoclave, use a product like Steranios for cold sterilisation, available on any medical supply website. 

Above all, stay healthy and keep it kinky! 

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How to Avoid Scams

How to Avoid Scams

We often talk about client screening, but I think it’s important that clients also screen Dommes to help avoid getting scammed. When a sub is scammed, it hurts ALL reputable professionals. I talked about some of these things in another article, but they bear repeating.

As most of you know, I feel it’s my duty to educate people to the best of my ability (based on my own personal experiences and opinions, of course), regardless of whether you decide to apply to session with me or another Dominatrix. 

So how can you be sure that you are going to have a great experience when you finally take the plunge and reach out to a professional Dominatrix?

Here are some tips.

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Social media presence

Is she active on multiple social media platforms? Most reputable Dommes have at least a FetLife account, plus Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and often an OnlyFans or LoyalFans site. How long has she been on these sites? Does she always post the same things or does she show a variety of settings? Are all of her posts along the lines of “pay, you worthless pig” or does she also post about other subjects? Does she engage with her community? Does she have a lot of other well-known Dommes that follow her? 

Does the experience that she claims to have align with her social media presence? If she says she has years of experience but started her Twitter two months ago, be wary (we do get deleted, so that is sometimes a factor, but a reputable Domme can quickly rebuild a decent following).

Verification videos are worthless. Go through her timeline and look at what she’s posted over the years. This will also give you a better idea of who you are becoming involved with. 

Photos 

Are all of her photos in the same three lingerie ensembles? Does she have high-quality fetish wear Even if you’re not a fetishist, pay attention to that. Any Domme that has invested in her business has several vinyl/latex/leather pieces that she will at least occasionally show off in her pictures, and I find it’s a good indication that she’s serious. 

Does she have pictures of her play space? Even Dommes that session at home have invested in quality furniture. How about her toys? If it looks like her flogger came from AliExpress, it’s probably not a good sign. Side note, this reminds me that I need to take some pictures of the new additions to The Justice Room!   

Does she show herself in a variety of settings? Most pro Dommes attend play parties and other events, visit other dungeons, session with other Mistresses, etc. If she only has photos of herself in one setting, she probably doesn’t have a lot of experience. 

Are there pictures of her in street clothes/outside of the dungeon? Yes, we use social media primarily to market our brand, but most of us will show a candid pic once in a while of our interests outside of the dungeon. Those of you that follow me on Twitter know that my timeline is filled with pictures of food and travel, two of my other passions. 

Please note, just because she doesn’t show her face doesn’t mean that she’s not real. Even the best of us have reasons that we don’t do so including personal security, to protect our loved ones, or any number of other factors. I know several amazing Dommes around the world that like their privacy and don’t want to be identified in the street. That doesn’t mean that they’re not exceptional Dominatrix’s. 

Website 

If she doesn’t have a website, it’s a huge red flag. It is our storefront, our boutique. It doesn’t necessarily have to be complex, but it should at least include her location, her screening requirements, various photographs (again, in different settings with good equipment), and her preferred practices. Even if she doesn’t do real time sessions, she should probably have a website. 

There are some great younger Dommes that only use social media to attract submissives. Again, this is just one factor in determining her “real-ness.” If she’s on lots of different social media sites and not setting off other red flags, it may be that she has attracted enough clients to not need one yet. 

Screening 

While you’re screening your future Domme, be aware of her standards in screening, as well. 

How does she communicate with potential new clients? If it’s only snapchat, WhatsApp, or DM’s on social media websites, red flag. Most of us prefer email followed by a phone/video call.

Deposits 

Most professionals require deposits, especially for real-time sessions, but if there are some red flags in other areas and she asks for 100% deposit for her first session with you, run for the hills! If you’re not sure, ask if she offers paid social time. Pay for a video chat of 10 or 15 minutes before engaging in a multi-hour session that could cost hundreds or even thousands of dollars. It hurts a lot less to lose 50€ than it does to lose 1000€.

Does she offer multiple options for taking deposits? If she only uses one platform (CashApp, for example), be wary. I have two different payment processors available to take credit cards, plus many, many other options available. This is true for most of my pro-Domme friends. 

First interactions 

Did she offer you a slave contract right from the beginning? Red flag. 

Did she contact you? Red flag. No decent professional chases subs, they come to us.

Did she engage in play immediately without getting paid? Red flag. A good Domme won’t start calling you names until she has received some sort of compensation first (and established limits!). Until that point, it’s business only. For example, if you contact me for a session, I am very polite and businesslike. I state the facts, I don’t get into details of what I’m going to do to you when we play. We discuss limits, set a date, and you pay a deposit. From there, I will start some teasing, but never before. If she comes into your DM’s calling you names right from the get-go, you’ve likely found a scammer. 

Bonus points 

  • Website history. One of my clients goes so far as to look at archive.org to see how long her website has been around. This is great for establishing how long she’s been working as a professional Domme. (Thanks for the tip, O.)
  • Testimonials of other clients. This can be on her webpage (although can easily be falsified) where she posts what her subs have written about her. Look for a diversity of writing styles if it’s on her website. You can also find sex-worker review sites in your area.  
  • A blog. If she takes the time to write once in a while, it shows that she’s willing to put in some work to show what she knows.
  • Passion. Does she seem invested in what she does? 
  • Practices. These should align with yours. 
  • Safety. Does she seem concerned about the well-being of her clients? This is of course super important in the dungeon, but even for online play, she should know how to establish boundaries. 

Final note 

Use good judgement. If something sounds too good to be true, it probably is. You get what you pay for, so don’t hesitate to invest in quality. Meeting a pro Domme is expensive, but it creates memories that you will cherish for a long time. Take the time to do your research so that those memories are positive and not you kicking yourself for making a bad choice.

 

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La note de remerciement

La note de remerciement

La plupart d’entre vous fantasment pendant des semaines, voire des mois, qui précèdent une séance BDSM. Nous échangeons des mails, nous discutons au téléphone ou faisons un appel vidéo, vous regardez mes vidéos et lisez les articles sur mon blog… mais après notre session, je n’ai pas de nouvelles de vous. Dire merci devrait être une évidence pour tout soumis, non ? Malheureusement, ce n’est pas toujours le cas.

On pourrait penser qu’un petit mot de remerciement n’est peut-être pas très important pour moi après une séance, mais c’est faux. Peut-être pensez-vous que j’ai tellement de soumis que je ne remarquerai pas si vous en écrivez un ou pas. Peut-être ne suis-je pas la seule Domina que vous voyez. Peut-être vous n’aimez pas particulièrement écrire. Voici quelques raisons pour lesquelles vous devriez envisager d’en écrire un si vous ne comprenez pas déjà l’importance de le faire.

 

Cela me permet de savoir comment vous vous sentez après une séance.

 

Un petit mot me permet de mieux comprendre comment vous gérez ces moments après notre intense séance. Selon le ton de votre note de remerciement, je peux souvent voir si vous êtes dans une situation de subdrop, si vous êtes dans un état d’euphorie énergétique, si vous vous sentez reconnaissant, si vous êtes un peu blasé… Si je pense que vous êtes dans une situation de subdrop, je peux faire des recommandations pour vous aider à vous sentir un peu mieux.

Un mot de remerciement permet de souligner l’alchimie que nous avons ensemble. Parfois, nous sommes tous deux pris dans l’instant d’une séance et tout se passe comme sur des roulettes. Un rappel de cela est toujours un énorme plus lorsque je décide si nous pouvons poursuivre une relation plus longue.

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Les bisous sur mes pieds sont bien, mais un petit mot après notre séance me fait toujours plaisir.

Cela m’aide à préparer notre prochaine séance

C’est l’occasion de me dire ce que vous avez particulièrement apprécié au cours de notre séance, ce qui vous a moins plu et ce qui vous a laissé indifférent. Qu’est-ce qui vous a surpris ? Qu’est-ce que vous n’attendiez pas mais que vous avez apprécié ? Peut-être y a-t-il quelque chose que vous vouliez absolument essayer mais que vous n’avez finalement pas tellement aimé. Toutes ces informations sont extrêmement précieuses pour moi !

Si nous avons décidé de continuer à jouer ensemble, quelques lignes rapides sur ce que vous voulez explorer davantage peuvent m’aider à adapter notre prochaine session pour que nous nous amusions tous les deux autant que possible.

Si notre dernière rencontre remonte à longtemps, je vérifie toujours si vous avez pris le temps de m’écrire un mot de remerciement. Si vous l’avez fait, je suis beaucoup plus susceptible de trouver du temps pour vous dans mon agenda chargé. Si vous ne l’avez pas fait… je ne ferai pas autant d’efforts pour trouver du temps pour vous.

 

Il n’est pas nécessaire qu’il soit long… mais il peut l’être.

 

Beaucoup d’entre vous ont lu certains des merveilleux témoignages sur mon site Web. J’apprécie beaucoup que quelqu’un écrive un long compte rendu détaillant certaines des choses que nous avons faites ensemble et, mieux encore, les émotions que cela a suscitées chez vous, mais ce n’est pas nécessaire.

Si vous aimez écrire, envoyez-moi un mail plus long et je le publierai sur mon site web (avec votre permission, bien sûr). Cela peut aider les autres à mieux comprendre mon style de domination et à savoir à quoi s’attendre lorsqu’ils viennent me voir. Certaines personnes souhaitent que nos interactions restent très privées, et je respecterai toujours cela ! J’ai des dizaines de témoignages que j’aimerais partager avec vous tous, mais les auteurs préféreraient que je les garde pour moi. C’est tout à fait normal. Je les garde précieusement et lorsque je vois ces personnes, je pense avec tendresse au moment où j’ai reçu leur rapport d’après-session.

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Cela me rend heureuse

Chaque fois que je reçois une note de remerciement, cela me fait sourire. Vous voulez toujours me faire sourire, n’est-ce pas ? Mon bonheur devrait être une priorité pour vous, et c’est un moyen facile de le faire.

Je n’exige jamais un mot de remerciement. Je veux que vous le fassiez parce que vous savez que cela me fera plaisir. Comme la plupart d’entre vous le savent, je veux que vous veniez à moi, que vous me donniez le meilleur de vous-même de plein gré, non pas parce que je l’exige, mais parce que je le mérite.

J’espère que cela encouragera davantage d’entre vous à m’écrire après notre séance. Ce sera un doux souvenir de notre temps passé ensemble, et un témoignage de votre gratitude, de votre respect et de votre admiration pour moi.

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My Preferred Session Times

My Preferred Session Times

I was speaking to a client recently about my personal preferences when it comes to session length and thought I’d share with you about what I like and why. This is to help guide you when deciding how long you should consider for your booking, be it the first time or the fortieth time that we see each other. 

There are pros and cons to all session times. Here’s a quick overview based on my experience. 

Please note: for a first session, I limit to three hours. This gives us more than enough time to get to know each other, but if the contact isn’t that great despite our email/video call exchanges, we’re not stuck in the same room together for too long. 

 

BDSM session times

For Beginners

I usually recommend 1 1/2 to 2 hours if you are just getting started in BDSM or this is one of your first times seeing a Professional Dominatrix. Any less than 90 minutes and we really don’t have the time to get into a good rhythm and explore a few different practices. More than two hours for a first experience can be a bit overwhelming. What we do is intense and can be tiring emotionally and physically. While I will certainly be doing most of the work, I find that debutants start to wind down after about two hours and are less able to fully enjoy the experience. The exception for this is if we have planned to do a lot of bondage, but I’ll detail that below.

More Experienced Players

Anything less than two hours is a bit quick. If you’ve had the opportunity to session regularly and you want to get into the real fun, two to three hours is ideal. We don’t have to rush, we can explore a number of things, and take the time to get you into subspace and have time to breathe, warm up, and wind down properly.

As most of you know, I love role play, and many of my regulars request that I concoct scenarios for play time. Like a good theatre performance, it takes a while to set the scene, for the actors to get into their roles, and for the story to start unfolding. The same is true with a role play scenario. Having the time to build up for the grand finale is essential for us to fully enjoy the spectacle.

Heavy Bondage Sessions

Bondage and sensory deprivation sessions are best when they’re long and slow. Minimum three hours. If you are someone that is looking to let go through bondage, it’s going to take some time.

Overnight Sessions

For long sessions, we need to have an established relationship. I would never consider having someone that I’ve only seen one or two times for an overnight. I need to know that you’re capable of dealing with my caprices for 12, 16 or 24 hours, and that can be a real challenge! While many submissives dream of serving me day and night, the reality is that it’s much less glamorous than you might imagine! These sessions are generally best suited to service subs who want a more intimate look in to my life and how they can better cater to my needs in the long term.

Short sessionsI veer away from one-hour sessions unless it’s strictly a fetishism session or you come to see me very regularly. You barely have time to get dried off after your shower before it’s time to start winding down! I’ve considered no longer offering one-hour sessions, but haven’t officially made the move.

Final note

These are just guidelines. When you apply to serve, we will discuss the specifics of your request and I will advise accordingly. Know that if I tell you that your desires and time that you can afford (either financially or time-wise) are not coherent, it’s not because I’m trying to discourage you. On the contrary, in fact. I take many things into consideration when I tell you “I suggest X hours.” It’s not because I am trying to milk you for another hour, or, on the contrary, trying to limit the time we spend together. It’s simply based on my years of experience as a professional and lifestyle Dominatrix. Sometimes what you fantasize about is not necessarily adapted to the time that we have together. As a Pro Domme, it’s my job to give you my informed opinion about how we can best make use of our session time.

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