This article was written in collaboration with JOYclub, a website for us with non-vanilla tastes 😈 Join us over here! JOI (Jerk Off Instructions), or directed masturbation in French, is a practice you can incorporate into your sex life, whether you're a dominant person or not. Inanna Justice, Dominatrix...
If you follow me on social networks, you've probably seen me posting about the France FemDom event I'm organizing in June 2024. But maybe you're not a fan of social media (I can totally understand) and have no idea what I'm talking about. Why I created France FemDom...
What does "lifestyle Dominatrix" mean? A lifestyle Domina is someone who engages in BDSM play without asking for payment for her services. A professional Domina, as the title implies, is someone who provides these services in exchange for payment. Many, if not most, professional Dommes also have play partners...
Planning your first (or second, or hundredth) game night? Here's a quick guide to help you make friends, feel more confident and have a fabulous time. Know the rules Find out about the event you want to attend. Is there a dress code? Are the doors...
It's becoming increasingly common for Dominatrices to ask for advance payments. I'm frequently asked why and what it means to you. Paying a deposit shows that you are committed to the appointment and that you understand the value of my time. I often joke that I...
It's the beginning of the year and time for me to set out my intentions for 2023. One of my goals is to focus on longer, more intimate sessions. While I love my more traditional BDSM sessions of around two hours and focused on different play, I feel the need to dedicate more...
I was recently contacted by Remi for his podcast, Le Derrière de Paris. You can listen to it on Spotify, Deezer and Amazon. Enjoy!
Symbols are important in BDSM, and the necklace is the ultimate symbol of Domination and submission. Why is the necklace so powerful? What is the history of the necklace in BDSM? What does it mean to wear a necklace? What are the different styles of necklace? I...
If you're interested in meeting a professional Dominatrix, you're probably wondering why we charge such a high hourly rate. Is it all about the money for us? The short answer is no, not at all. The more comprehensive answer is also no, but requires some explanation. Here are a few reasons why...
Are you just starting out in the wonderful world of BDSM and feeling overwhelmed by all the complex toys available? I wrote an article about everyday objects a while ago, and I invite you to (re)read it if you haven't already. You've played with pliers...
Most of you fantasize for weeks, even months, leading up to a BDSM session. We exchange emails, chat on the phone or make a video call, you watch my videos and read the posts on my blog... but after our session, I don't hear from you. Saying thank you should be...
This article is limited to male chastity, as I have no experience of locking up a submissive. Although some of my submissives identify with another gender during our sessions, for convenience in writing, I will use the pronouns he / him. As in all my articles,...