Interview with Le TDS Club
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I'm Inanna Justice, a professional dominatrix based in Paris. I'm American, in France for almost 5 years. I'm a great player, my Domination style is often playful and unpredictable. For me, D/s relationships (including with clients) are based on mutual respect and benevolence.
What do you like to do outside TDS, what are your hobbies/passions?
I always say that I have two passions: sexuality and food. In a former life, I was a chef and sommelier. I love to read and write (there are articles on my website for the curious). I'm very curious by nature and love adventures. Travelling feeds me, but this year was a bit complicated...
How did you find out about TDS and how long have you been involved?
It was a bit of a coincidence. I met a foot fetishist on a kinky dating site. One day, he asked me if I was available and I answered in the affirmative. He asked me how much for an hour... I've been working as a professional for three years now, but I've been in the BDSM scene for a long, long time.
Is this your main activity?
Yes, it's my main activity, but I keep a small part-time job so I don't have to play with people I don't like. I'm very selective with submissives and my vanilla job allows me to pay the rent when circumstances don't allow me to do sessions (during confinements, for example). I never feel under pressure to accept a session because of this.
Why did you choose the TDS?
It gives me a freedom that's not possible in other professions. I can choose my clients, I can set my own hours, I can take vacations when it suits me. I can do as many sessions as I want one week and then the next, take a few days off to do nothing (or rather to work on other projects - I'm someone who always has 20,000 projects in mind!).
What branch of TDS are you in, and what are your favourite practices and limitations?
I only do live sessions. I need to feel my partners' breathing, the smell of their skin, their heartbeats... For the moment, I'm not interested in doing virtual sessions or videos, but that could change in the future. That said, during the second confinement, I organized a distance learning course for the submissives. It was a great project, and I might do it again in the future.
For the moment, I'm concentrating on IRL sessions. I'm quite versatile and adapt to my partners. I give pleasure when I can transport the other person elsewhere, whether with my words or my toys. I love role-playing, impact play, penetration in all its forms (probes, pegging, needles...) and woman worship. I'm not into scat or Roman showers.
What makes you thrive as a TDS?
First and foremost, the relationships with my subcontractors. I get to rub shoulders with people from a wide variety of backgrounds. I see myself as a bit of a carer: my work allows me to give to others so that they can explore incredible sensations and experiences. I'm a dealer in fantasies! When people come to me, they experience a moment out of time, out of the constraints of life, pure pleasure (and a little pain for those who like it).
How do you organize your day? What's your typical day as a TDS?
I spend a lot of time in front of my computer. Whether it's writing articles, editing photos, communicating with submissives, posting on social networks... Like many of us, admin takes up a lot of time! I don't do "assembly-line" sessions. I'd rather do 1-2 quality meetings than several that are not very good.
What do you like about being contacted by a customer and what don't you like about it? Any advice for future customers?
I have a very well-developed site with many articles, my preferences, my limits... On the site, I have a small questionnaire that you absolutely must fill in before scheduling an appointment. I don't accept calls and I don't do last-minute sessions. My sessions are all tailor-made and I demand a certain level of commitment from the very first contact. My questionnaire is a good guide for people who want to try Female Domination "Inanna-style" .
I'm a happy person and my philosophy is that vinegar doesn't attract flies. I don't yell, I don't mistreat my submissives (even though I love humiliation and degradation with some). I'm very demanding and strict, but not mean. If you're looking to be treated like a doormat, I'm not the Dominatrix for you.
Have you ever been recognized in the street? If so, did the person approach you? What was your reaction?
I don't show my whole face on the networks to avoid this. I've already bumped into one of my submissives on the subway, but it hasn't happened to me yet to be recognized by someone I haven't played with before.
Do you have a funny story to tell, or a sexy one, or a bof bof one, or all three?
There's too much to tell you! I don't even know where to start!
Are you OUT to your friends and family? If so, how did you teach them about your profession? And what were their reactions?
I'm OUT with all my friends but not my family (I have very few, anyway). My mother lives in the States and there's no point in talking to her, although I'd like to. I'm proud of my job, but she's not on the same wavelength about TDS.
Are you in a relationship? If so, what was his reaction when you told him about TDS? If not, is it difficult to find someone who accepts it?
Yes, I'm in a relationship with an absolutely gorgeous person who accepts my profession. He knows that I love what I do and that I thrive in my job. I'm very lucky to have found someone who's so supportive. What's more, he's a super talented photographer so I always have beautiful photos 😉
What platforms can we find you on? (social networks and paid networks)
I'm very active on Twitter " https://twitter.com/InannaJustice " . I also have a FetLife profile as well as Instagram and FB but I'm not often on the others.
Any final words?
Thank you for all your hard work and support! I organize events for pro Dominatrices in Paris, including a monthly dinner (with curfew, it's a snack) and workshops. I plan to organize several events in 2021 including a "foot lovers" afternoon, a formal dinner, a "forced" bisexuality evening and many more. If your readers would like to find out more about me and my projects, my website " https://inannajustice.com/ " and my Twitter are made for.
