BDSM Coaching

Are you curious about your sexuality?

Questions about sexuality aren't just commonplace; they're essential to personal growth and self-understanding. Many people struggle with their kinks or fantasies, but may find it difficult to express or explore these feelings. Whether you're questioning your interests or seeking to better understand the dynamics of BDSM, you're not alone. The world of kink and BDSM can seem intimidating, but with the right advice and resources, you can embark on a rewarding journey of self-discovery.

It's important to understand that exploring your sexuality isn't just about understanding your preferences, but rather integrating your personality. Every question you ask can lead to new insights, helping you to untangle threads of desire that may not have been fully explored. What's more, finding an experienced guide - someone with a vast knowledge of BDSM - can accelerate your journey, providing both the tools and the confidence you need to navigate your desires safely and consensually.

The value of expert BDSM advice

With over fifteen years of experience in the kink scene and over seven years as a professional Dominatrix, I've cultivated a solid foundation to help you improve your skills and confidence. BDSM coaching isn't just about teaching techniques; it's about creating a supportive environment where you can ask questions and receive honest feedback. Many newcomers feel intimidated by the immensity of the BDSM community, and this is entirely understandable. Expert advice can demystify the process, making it accessible and enjoyable.
Through my non-profit association (Kinky Saloon France), I organize events and workshops for people of all levels. These gatherings foster the creation of a community, enabling shared experiences and open discussions about desires, limits and safety. Events tailored to different topics - from introductory sessions to advanced skills - ensure there's something for everyone. These platforms not only provide valuable knowledge, but also create a sense of belonging that is often crucial to exploring the kink world.

Lifelong learning and continuous growth

The journey into BDSM is constantly evolving, which is why I'm committed to lifelong learning. In 2023, I trained as a sex therapist, deepening my understanding of sexuality and relationships to better serve those seeking BDSM coaching. By continually improving my knowledge, I can offer a richer, more informed perspective to the people I work with.

This year, I'm also embarking on hypnosis training to deepen my understanding of the altered states of consciousness experienced during kink games, such as subspace, topspace and the emotional drop (subdrop, Dommedrop) after a session. These experiences can be exhilarating, but they can also be disorientating if not handled correctly. By acquiring skills in this area, I aim to empower you to recognize and manage these states, to improve the quality of your life and enhance your well-being.

Ultimately, whether you're looking to hone existing skills or explore new areas, my passion for sharing knowledge drives me to cultivate a space where learning and growth go hand in hand. Together, we'll embark on a journey to become the kinkster you aspire to be, embracing your desires with confidence and authenticity.

Of course, each coaching session is based on your precise needs. Here's a price list:

Unique coaching session
200 €
75 minutes per video call. It is possible to do this face-to-face in certain time slots.

For the curious and those just beginning to explore the world of BDSM, or for those who want to delve deeper into the details of D/s relationships, each session is tailor-made for your needs.

Define your style
500 €
A 30-minute video session, two hours in my dungeon.

Do you have questions about how to position yourself in your D/s relationship(s)? Are you having difficulty identifying your needs or those of your partner(s)? Would you like to improve your communication skills? These sessions can help you develop strategies that will help you become the Dom-me or sub you want to be.

Concrete skills training for top performers
From €200
1+ hour in my dungeon, The Justice Room

Coaching based on the practice of a specific tool (whip, bondage, sensory deprivation, etc.). We'll take the time to discuss safety, as well as the mechanics of the tool, before learning/improving your skills.

Medium- to long-term coaching
From €600
Duration to be defined together (minimum 4 hours in combined format - video and face-to-face)

We'll schedule a short video call to determine your needs and see if we're compatible, an important step in any relationship! This format is tailored to your level and needs and can help you develop your BDSM wisdom and create joyful relationships with your partner(s). Find your inspiration and live your best kinky life!