Tips from a Dominatrix: During and After Our Session

Tips from a Dominatrix: During and After Our Session

Every Dominatrix has her preferences. These are a few things that you can do during our session to show your respect and admiration.

When you’re invited in to my space, you should be behaving as if you’re visiting the Queen of England. Think about asking questions instead of making statements. Ask if you can sit down before doing so. Ask to wash your hands (actually, I tell you to do so upon arrival, but you get the idea). Ask if you have permission to breathe. I would rather you ask than you making assumptions that might upset me.

We will chit chat for a few minutes, but that does not mean that I’m all of a sudden your best friend. Feel free to ask questions, but nothing too personal. Remember that I have a life outside of our time together that I would prefer not sharing details about. This talk is so I can check in on you and verify any important points from our previous exchanges. We will go over my safe words and any last minute information. Pay attention. If I see you staring off at the art hanging on the walls, I won’t be pleased.

Be obedient. Good boys and girls get rewards. Bad ones get punished, and not the kind of punishment that you want.

Communicate with me. If something isn’t going well for any reason, I trust that you will talk to me. Are your hands starting to tingle while you’re in bondage? Tell me. Do you have a sudden urge to use the bathroom? Tell me. Is there unwanted pain? Tell me. Do not be embarrassed to talk to me. Use the safe words as needed. They’re there for a reason.

I am not a big fan of “Mistress” as a title. I much prefer “Madame.” I will immediately know that you’ve followed me long enough if you address me as such. This is an excellent sign that you’ve done your homework.

I’m very tactile and love touching my subs, but that does not give you the right to touch me. If I want you to do so, I will guide you. You don’t have permission to so much as kiss my feet without my permission. If I want it, I’m a big girl and will tell you.

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Communication is key!

Towards the end of our time together, we will do a quick debriefing. This gives you a few minutes to come back to reality and also lets me assess if I think you might experience subdrop and possibly give you some advice on how to deal with that. As you may have gathered from my other articles, I am very serious about your safety, including your mental well-being.

Send a thank you note or, better yet, a testimonial of the session. It doesn’t necessarily have to be long (and as I’ve mentioned in other articles, unless you’re paying me to read, please don’t write me a novel). For those of you that are in it for the long haul, I recommend taking notes immediately after a session, then looking back a few days later.

Sometimes a practice that we didn’t adore during the session somehow becomes super exciting several days later. If there were things that you particularly enjoyed, let me know. I also understand and want to hear about things that you didn’t appreciate as much. This will help us both in future sessions. This can help you the next time you’re booking a Dominatrix, be it with me or another beautiful Goddess.

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Inanna Justice, Dominatrice professionelle

Paris

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