{"id":4822,"date":"2021-10-24T09:58:25","date_gmt":"2021-10-24T07:58:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/inannajustice.com\/?p=4822"},"modified":"2023-12-10T14:56:52","modified_gmt":"2023-12-10T13:56:52","slug":"jouets-essentiels-2021","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/inannajustice.com\/en\/jouets-essentiels-2021\/","title":{"rendered":"Getting started with BDSM: essential toys"},"content":{"rendered":"

Have you just entered the wonderful world of BDSM<\/strong> and you feel overwhelmed by all the complex toys available? I wrote an article about everyday objects<\/a> a while ago, and I invite you to (re)read it if you haven't already. You've been playing with clothespins, ice cubes, and other items you can find at home, and now you're ready to invest in some equipment BDSM<\/strong>. Here's a short list of my recommendations.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

As I've said many times before, it's always better to invest in quality rather than quantity. Make sure you use sex toys that are safe for your body (surgical steel, medical silicone, etc.<\/strong>). You'll be much happier to own a few quality items than a drawer full of crap you're not proud of (and which can be potentially dangerous). <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That said, some of these toys can be found at affordable prices on sites like Wish or AliExpress. I'll say more about this in the rest of my article. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don't forget hygiene! Wash your toys before and after each use, even if you only have one partner. Use a medical-grade cold sterilization solution to ensure that everything is as clean as possible. Condoms are relatively inexpensive and help save time in your household. Don't be ashamed to use them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Without further ado, here are a few recommendations on BDSM basics <\/strong>: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tools for sensory play <\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Sensory play may include stroking the skin with a feather to the electrical stimulation<\/strong> intense. The possibilities are endless, and I love watching the goose bumps appear when I play these games. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

One of my favorite toys is the Wartenberg roulette wheel<\/strong>. In fact, I love them so much I own a whole collection. They were originally designed to test nerve reflexes, but have become a staple of BDSM kit. Depending on the pressure and where you use it, sensations can range from a slight tickle to quite a painful sensation. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Collar and leash<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Another staple of the BDSM kit. Place a necklace<\/strong> around your submissive's neck can be a very intimate moment, a physical symbol of the bond between the two of you, whether for two hours or a lifetime. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It's also a good way to signal to your partner that it's playtime, much like when we dress up in beautiful lingerie (yes, men can wear lingerie too!), light candles or put on a Barry White song. It's a way of communicating to your partner your desire to share a naughty moment. During play, collars and leashes are also practical ways of directing your submissive around your den. Depending on the force you exert (and the type of collar), this is quite effective. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I often use the collar for the predicament bondage<\/strong> \"If my submissive is forced, for example, to stand on his feet, he risks the discomfort of the collar tightening firmly around his neck. WARNING, this is potentially very dangerous and should not be practised unless you are absolutely aware of the risks. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Collars and leashes lend themselves easily to \"pet play\", which has recently become one of my favorite games. Bark my little puppy! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Impact toys<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

It's no secret that I'm a sadist, so these are perhaps my favorite instruments. I have a huge collection of whips, tawses, swifts, rods, paddles, whips<\/strong> and other objects I can hit you with. I highly recommend Caresse de Cuir<\/a> which produces a variety of beautiful impact toys. You can find my Wishlist on their site if you'd like to contribute to my ever-growing collection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is one area where I urge you to buy the best quality you can afford right from the start. You will probably be very disappointed if you order from a random mass production site. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"JOUETS