{"id":10056,"date":"2024-08-29T12:51:34","date_gmt":"2024-08-29T10:51:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/inannajustice.com\/?p=10056"},"modified":"2024-08-29T13:10:38","modified_gmt":"2024-08-29T11:10:38","slug":"la-joie-du-joi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/inannajustice.com\/en\/la-joie-du-joi\/","title":{"rendered":"The joy of JOI"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This article was written in collaboration with JOYclub, a website for us with non-vanilla tastes \ud83d\ude08 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.joyclub.com\/fr?aff_partner_name=pilot_fr&amp;aff_partner_id=affiliate &amp;aff_sub_id=inanna_justice\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Join us here!<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><em>JOI (Jerk Off Instructions) is a practice you can incorporate into your sex life, whether you're a dominant or not. Inanna Justice, Dominatrice expatriate in Paris, gives you her tips for this practice that's sure to get you up on your feet.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><em>He's kneeling in front of me, fine drops of sweat on the bridge of his nose, his chest, his forehead. His excitement is visible; he has goose bumps. For the past few hours, I've been telling him that this moment will come... if he's good.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>- You masturbate with your left hand, right?<br>- Yes, ma'am.<br>I tie this hand firmly behind her back. The position is difficult; it changes his balance, even on his knees. I can see him fidgeting, trying to find a more comfortable position.<br>- Do you think you deserve an orgasm today?<br>- Yes, ma'am.<br>- A better answer would have been \"If you think so, Madame\", but let's move on for now. I can see that your training is far from complete.<br>- Yes, Madame. Thank you, Madame.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>I order him to grab his tail...<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mutual pleasure is always my goal during a BDSM scene, even if my own pleasure remains the priority (ah yes, it's so good to be&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.joyclub.com\/fr\/magazin\/bdsm\/la_maitresse_dans_l_univers_bdsm.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Dominatrix<\/a>&nbsp;!). Despite what you might think, even the most intense sessions are based on&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.joyclub.com\/fr\/magazin\/sexeducation\/le_consentement.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">consent<\/a>The aim is to create a climate of trust, mutual respect and discussion of each person's physical and emotional limits.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And let's be honest, almost everyone likes to masturbate, especially with a partner who likes to watch. Jerk Off Instructions, or JOI, is a method I use to make sure my partner gets pleasure while maintaining my superiority.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>JOI is not necessarily a power dynamic, although it can be. It can be practiced with people of all kinds, and requires no equipment. You may or may not mix it with&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.joyclub.com\/fr\/magazin\/sex\/les_jeux_de_roles.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">a role-playing game<\/a>. It can be used as a reward or punishment (we'll come back to this in a few minutes). The possibilities are endless! Here are my tips on how to incorporate it into your sex life, whether you're kinky or vanilla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/joy.club\/zunv\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read more<\/a><\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/joy.club\/zunv\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>.<\/strong><\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This article was written in collaboration with JOYclub, a website for us with non-vanilla tastes \ud83d\ude08 Join us over here! JOI (Jerk Off Instructions), or directed masturbation in French, is a practice you can incorporate into your sex life, whether you're a dominant person or not. Inanna Justice, Dominatrix...<\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":10059,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[111,113],"tags":[46,44,45],"class_list":["post-10056","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-petites-pensees-bdsm","category-pratiques-bdsm","tag-Dominatrice-en","tag-Dominatrix-en","tag-maitresse-en"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/inannajustice.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10056","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/inannajustice.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/inannajustice.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/inannajustice.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/inannajustice.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10056"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/inannajustice.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10056\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10058,"href":"https:\/\/inannajustice.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10056\/revisions\/10058"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/inannajustice.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10059"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/inannajustice.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10056"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/inannajustice.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10056"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/inannajustice.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10056"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}